An Invitation?

I’ve received an invitation to speak at the Moira Anderson Foundation ‘Not on our Watch’ Partnership Conference on the 26th October 2015. Sandra Brown is the founder of the Foundation and was awarded an OBE in 2006 for her contribution to child protection. Sandra is also an endorsed trainer in Protective Behaviours and it is through this that our paths met 🙂

Sandra was eight when eleven year old Moira Anderson disappeared from the small town of Coatbridge, near Glasgow, in 1957. Twenty-seven years later, at a family funeral, Sandra’s estranged father confessed to her that he had been involved in the girl’s disappearance. Appalled and fascinated by his curious half confession, Sandra began to delve into the case and in so doing discovered that her father was an acknowledged molester of children and his activities were known not just to everyone in Coatbridge but also to the police

As a result of her experiences, Sandra founded The Moira Anderson Foundation in 2000. She has remained deeply involved and assisted them to grow to where they are today.

Sandra Brown was educated at Coatbridge High School, Hamilton College and the Open University, which awarded her an Honours Degree in 1978 and a Masters in Education in 1996. A primary Deputy Head Teacher, then a Senior Lecturer in Further Education, she is the author of the bestselling book ‘Where there is Evil’.

 

I am so looking forward to being part of this amazing event and hope as many of you as possible can be there too 🙂

 

Feeling Sound :)

I’m in Ireland at the moment leading a further 2 day PB Foundation Course – this time I ‘plerked’ with another group of amazing people and the training had a focus on how to empower our youngest children. Last time I was here, (October 2014), the people of Ireland were using their voices to record their concerns regarding the introduction of water charges. This time, voices and votes are being used to send a message that inequality is no longer ok. And I feel so chuffed to have witnessed first hand such a momentous day in Irish history. It felt fantastic that friends & family networks pulled together, with people being prepared to travel ‘home’ to vote and thereby support equality. For me this is such a wonderful example of people seeing others as people first and not using prejudice, religion or labels to exclude.

Thank you to the people of Ireland for showing the world how to work together to change the way a country treats its citizens.

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Early Warning Signs!

Hi there,
A quick post as feeling a tad down as a result of the outcome of this week’s opportunity for people to use their voice in line with ‘We can talk with someone about anything, even if it feels awful or small’ and make a difference to help people feel safe all the time.

I’m aware that I am experiencing an awful lot of early warning signs regarding the future of both the NHS and the education system: 0-19. I feel strongly about both as they were designed to recognise and acknowledge that first and foremost we are all people and therefore deserve to be seen as this in terms of equality of opportunity and accessibility. I’m hoping my fears will be unfounded – however so many people on my networks admit to feeling the same and have information that reinforces these ‘unsafe’ feelings. So, I urge you to listen to your feelings and challenge behaviours that are currently eating away at the systems put in place to help all people feel safe all the time.

I am also reminded that we all make a difference and if we review our networks and persist we can do our best to ensure our feelings and thoughts are heard. Again, please listen to your early warning signs and use your voice to ‘make a noise’, because the voices of children and people with vulnerability are rarely heard so we need responsible and respond-able adults to speak out on their behalf.

PBs ‘Frozen?’

For those of you who have attended Protective Behaviours training with me, you’ll hopefully be aware of how I love to find PBs in everyday experiences including popular songs, advertising, merchandise, film and even food and drink. For me, if the PB process were an item of confectionary it might be a Mars Bar, as in being there ‘when you work, rest and play’. If it were a ‘tipple’ it could perhaps be Martini, as in ‘any time, any place, anywhere’. And whenever I’m watching films, I often find myself pausing the action to make a note of the moment when PBs appears – my latest example comes courtesy of my PB Buddy, Judith Staff, who encouraged me to look again at the sequel to ‘Shrek’ and notice how in Chapter 2 the character Donkey practises the strategy of  Persistence asking ‘are we there yet’ every few seconds, Shrek masks his feelings after Risking on Purpose and leaving the safety of his swamp to travel to Far, Far Away Land, which by the way is far, far away, adopting a brave face on and off throughout the journey and Unwritten Rules are in abundance surrounding a visit to new ‘in-laws’!

Another current favourite of mine is supplied, maybe unsurprisingly, by the film ‘Frozen’. I particularly love the way the colour blue now appears to have been ‘reclaimed’ by the female gender – this was Elsa & Mehighlighted at a recent little girl’s 5th birthday party I attended where an older female was questioning why the tablecloths were blue – ‘surely they’re for boys’ and it felt fab for me to hear the reply from one of the much younger females exclaiming – ‘no it’s Elsa Blue!’ And I also admitt to singing both aloud and to myself the song ‘Let it Go’ at times when feelings of exasperation could perhaps result in behaviours associated with a much younger Sally Ann.

So ‘thank you’ Walt Disney Animation Studios for providing more examples of PBs in action and, in my opinion, a very helpful Protective Interruption. I’m also feeling hopeful that current plans to produce a sequel will yield further example of PBs in action and more opportunities to sing aloud!

1st Purely Protective Behaviours Seminar!

I’m feeling really excited about the prospect of working with my PB Buddy, Judith Staff to present, as far as I’m aware, the 1st ‘purely’ PBs Seminar. This follows on from our invitation to present the keynote speech and workshops to launch PBs at Cambridgeshire County Council’s Early Years Safeguarding Conference last month. And, as the feedback was so positive, we’ve decided to take this show ‘on the road’. Our first stop is Milton Keynes which feels a bit like bringing PBs ‘home’ to me as this was where Di Margetts  arrived in the 1980s by invitation of Thames Valley Police to teach PBs.

Places are limited as we want everyone to experience everything on offer and come away with a resource that they can use straight away for themselves and all the people they share this planet with. Fuller details are on the flier and will keep you posted in terms of our next stop on our PB tour!

Oh for a ‘Dream Coracle’.

I regularly receive emails from various companies advertising their goods and services and I think I’m pretty good at ‘clearing out my closet’ of those that are not what I’m interested in. One particular email that often arrives is from Community Playthings and the most recent one described their ‘Dream Coracle’ which to many may look like a wooden pet basket. I hope if you get the chance to check out the link above and spend a few minutes watching yet another, in my opinion, wonderful film produced by Siren Films, you’ll too be thinking like me and wishing you’d been offered the opportunity as a baby to crawl in and out whenever you recognised your mind and body wanted and/or needed time to rest. And how well that fits with PBs in terms of choice, control and time-limit? Perfect in my opinion as a baby has the choice to crawl in or not, has control of what he or she can do while in the Dream Coracle including what to take in or leave out and can climb out again when ready to wake up. Sounds like a really safe place to me 🙂

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Wishing you all sweet dreams zzzzzzzzzzzz

‘All the flowers of all the tomorrows are in the seeds of today.’

Just under 10 years ago, I co-trained a 2 day Foundation course in Protective Behaviours with Fiona Benjamin in a place called Over which, for those of you who don’t know,  is in Cambridgeshire. I had recently moved to the county and couldn’t work out why no one seemed to have heard of PBs. I didn’t want the county I now lived in not to know about it, so some PB seeds were sown…BUT….no one appeared to nurture them despite numerous efforts to build a PB network.

Then, a few months ago I was contacted by someone also, coincidentally, called Fiona and a new Cambridgeshire PB adventure began. So far Fiona and I have met to talk about how PBs fits beautifully with the Early Years Foundation Stage, Safeguarding and when taught, empowers pre-school children to keep themselves feeling safe. Fiona also joined me on my Dublin adventure and completed Foundation Stage training. She helped me identify the people within Cambridgeshire County Council whose job it is to provide workforce development training. So, for me the fantastic news is that almost 10 years after the first PB course in Over, two new courses are already booked, and on top of that I was invited to give the keynote address at this year’s Early Years Safeguarding Conference. This took place on Thursday 29th January 2015, and I would like to thank all those who attended for their enthusiastic feedback.

It looks as though the seeds that were planted last week stand a far greater chance of thriving, flowering and helping young children learn the skills they need to keep themselves feeling safe. It also confirms to me that the PB strategies of Persistence, Risking on Purpose and Network Review work beautifully whatever the climate and that people really do make a difference – thank you Fionas!