Protective Behaviours

Hi All,

Apologies for not adding an update sooner regarding on-going projects to extend access to Protective Behaviours both in terms of training and practice by trying to find affordable and sustainable ways to get the messages across to young people. However, I can now well and truly say that I believe all the behind the scenes work that has been going on with Sharon & Neil Evans from the Dot Com Children’s Fund charity, (and there has been an awful lot of it), could mean that the dream of getting the PBs messages to as many children and young people as possible is looking more achievable. Sharon, Neil and I have met on a number of occasions since July 2013 with a view to developing new resources for children in Key Stage 1 and updating existing resources for Key Stage 2. This has meant that 2 new journals and teacher guides have been created for Years 1 & 2, all the existing Teacher Guides require re-writing: just 2 to go, and updates to websites are taking place – no small job. Many thanks also need to go to Steve and Judith for all their hard work, attention to detail and on-going involvement.

I’m really looking forward to all that 2014 could bring for children in all schools in terms of learning the personal safety skills that PBs offers, as well as developing projects for parents and the under 5s that will be reinforced in schools were Dot Com resources are used. When I mentioned to people a couple of years ago that I felt strongly that we needed to find ways to join ‘the dots’ in terms of access to Protective Behaviours across the local authority and health service borders, I never envisaged that this could be achieved by being part of a team called Dot Com 😆

For more information please visit Dot Com Children’s Fund.

I feel so pleased to be able to say that it never fails to amaze and astound me the lengths people are willing and able to go to raise awareness of things they feel passionate about. Matthew McVarish is one of these people and is currently on the 4^th day out of 600 days of a 10,000 mile walk to ‘Stop the Silence’ that surrounds child sexual abuse. Matthew will walk from London through 31 capital cities across the EU and return to Edinburgh 18 months later on 5^th February 2015. On Friday 31^st May 2013, I felt so privileged to be part of a small crowd that saw Matthew off from the National Theatre on London’s South Bank. Accompanying Matthew walking the first hundred steps or so down to Westminster Bridge complete with Piper and balloons and then tearfully waving ‘good bye’ as he climbed the steps up to the road on his own and set off on an incredible journey is a day I will always remember. You can find out much more about Matthew’s story by visiting www.roadtochange.eu. Thank you so much Matthew for all you’re doing and also to Sandra Brown, founder of the Moira Anderson Foundation and Protective Behaviours trainer for sharing this wonderful project. The photos below show Matthew’s route and Sandra and Matthew sharing one final goodbye hug. To find out more about Sandra’s amazing story please visit www.moiraanderson.org.

Later that same morning, with the sound of the bagpipes still in my ears, I headed off on an adventure of my own. A couple of weeks earlier I caught the tail end of an ex-MP speaking on the radio about ‘empowering children to keep themselves safe’. Yet again I found myself shouting ‘Protective Behaviours’ at the radio and decided that now was the time to do more than shouting. So I ‘googled’ the person I heard and sent an email all with a view to sharing my passion for the PB process and how it is and can be used to keep people safe while having fun and adventures.  When asked later by some friend ‘what were you thinking?’ I realised that I did what I did because I am feeling increasingly confused and frustrated that there are so many individual and successful PB projects around yet there hasn’t been a way of joining them up so everyone can have access to them regardless of where they live.  I’ve set myself a bit of a challenge therefore to see what I can do to make this happen and stop yet another ‘postcode lottery’.

I need to say a big thank you to my wonderful friend Chris who came with me on Friday to make sure I didn’t get lost and kept myself safe. In my opinion the meeting went as well as it could have done and I managed to pause for breath at least twice in the 90 minutes! The next step is to share more information about existing projects with a view to working out how this could be replicated. And the fantastic thing is that there are currently PBs projects that work with parents and families, children of all ages, schools, people in prison, residential homes ……. and probably lots more that I’m not aware of. So if you know of any that are currently running please let me know so I can share this information with perhaps some other people who can help to make PBs accessible to an even wider audience. And, I will be asking a few of my PBPeople buddies to join me in presenting this information. I’ll keep you posted as to how my mission goes alongside Matthew’s epic adventure with a hope that we will both be able to say ‘things are changing’ as we perhaps even march up the Royal Mile towards the Palace of Holyrood on 15^th February 2015!

This week saw the launch of a new adventure, the Protective Behaviours Training Partnership (www.protectivebehaviourstraining.co.uk)  that I’ve been working on with a great PB Buddy, Simon.  Simon and I have, for some time, been trying to find more ways to promote the Protective Behaviours message and offer people more information about the process and ways to access workshops and training.

So we have the community-based PBPeople site which provides a place to network, discover PB consistent resources, share stories and ask questions via a forum, and now we also have a new ‘shop window’ in the training partnership.  Over the next few months we look forward to adding more associate partners and developing links with academic institutions to have the courses we offer recognised and accredited – exciting times!

It is with great excitement and pleasure that I can announce that I’ve finally got round to getting my act together and coordinating dates with another PB trainer to facilitate the 4 day ‘Intermediate’  PB Process into Practice (P2P) course.  Previously,  I’ve been fortunate enough to have someone either ask me to co-deliver this course or tell me the dates they want, so now it feels really good to be able to say to all people who have previously attended 2 day ‘Foundation’ PB training, “here’s a course designed to develop your working knowledge of the Protective Behaviours Process, enhance existing skills, create new resources and therefore become what some practitioners describe as, a Specialist PBs Person”.

For more details of the course including an overview and a downloadable booking form please click here.

And if you would like some further information including some feedback from previous P2P courses, please feel free to get in touch. 😛